I got this message from my message back, whats going on...

Hi. This is the qmail-send program at pl1.qcinet.net.
I'm afraid I wasn't able to deliver your message to the following addresses.
This is a permanent error; I've given up. Sorry it didn't work out.

<X@XgreatlakesaauX.XcomX>:
This address no longer accepts mail.

--- Below this line is a copy of the message.

Return-Path: <X@Xp32X.XcomX>
Received: (qmail 1293 invoked from network); 14 Sep 2005 09:45:58 -0400
Received: from mail.speednetllc.com (67.39.134.6)
  by dns1.qcihost.net with SMTP; 14 Sep 2005 09:45:58 -0400
Received: from FD2 [68.250.44.145] by mail.speednetllc.com
  (SMTPD-8.21) id AF8108C4; Wed, 14 Sep 2005 10:11:13 -0400

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whats up? are you blocking any thing from dns1.qcihost.net or mail.speednetllc.com if not it must be my domain holders that are messing this up.

no its hosted here, i put X in the email to mess up  email bots

No it went from the users ISP, to the/some "server" and then that message sent back to the user -one that is not the IP or ISP's service. It is where the domain is held and use to point to... and that is the IP of those servers. He can get his mail and can (send mail only from the server) from this server just can send mail out from the his ISP